Foreign Women: Falling In Love Beyond Borders

Why Fall In Love With Foreign Women?

Loving foreign women can be risky and fulfilling at the same time.

Dating foreign women is certainly not a new phenomenon. Despite these types of relationships existing throughout history, natural constraints on travel and communication always limited them. Limitations in terms of technology were matched by geographical and cultural barriers. Interracial dating and marriages also weren’t socially acceptable in many insular cultures. With the nearly limitless possibilities that today’s technology brings, however, relationship hindrances like distance and tradition are slowly fading into the dustbin of history.

Indeed, stories of love that transcend geographical boundaries and break through cultural barriers are no longer considered impossible. This is a testament to the interesting times in which we live. These are times in which love has proven to be universal; knowing no borders, knowing no race, being unhindered by distance and understood by all languages.

Here are just a few of the many reasons and risks to join the revolution and giving international dating a try:

  • (LDR) Long Distance Relationship

The biggest risk, when it comes to committing to foreign women, is the potential for a long distance relationship. This is a possibility that you must be aware of and wholeheartedly accept before dating foreign women. Most international relationships begin this way, since leaving your life behind and moving to a different country for love is a big step. Going through immigration authorities may also be quite tedious.

While they are, perhaps, the least enticing initial aspect of dating foreign women, LDR can be beautiful and beneficial for a long-term relationship.  With a little creativity, lots of patience and an unwavering resolve, you may find that absence does indeed make the heart grow fonder.

This type of arrangement may not be tenable in the long term.  If, however, you can push through this initial stage of your relationship, few things will be capable of coming between you and your foreign love. If you’re able to pass this test apart, just imagine what you can accomplish together.

Distance can also be an excellent test of trust, patience, and commitment. Surpassing these challenges could mean that you’re ready for a long-term relationship and your foreign girlfriend is a keeper. Though it might be a risky proposition in some ways, foreign women are risk takers when it comes to love. They don’t easily give up and will strive hard to keep the relationship going. They are, after all, gambling with their hearts in the game of love, just like you.

  • Cultural Differences

Although many may view it as a bane rather than a boon, cultural differences may actually be something you can grow to appreciate when dating foreign women. There may be struggles at first, and even misunderstandings, due to your differences in customs and traditions. Things that are acceptable to you may not be okay for your partner. Like many other aspects of dating foreign women, this too can be overcome though.

Eventually, your cultural differences might actually be something that further connects you. It’s is really just a matter of perspective. Your differences can also be an avenue for learning and personal growth. Discerning more about, and experiencing a different culture, first-hand can lend perspective.

Having something new to look forward to every single day is also exciting. Equally exciting for her will be you sharing your own culture and traditions. Exchanging entirely new ways of life is an exciting bonding experience.

  • Language Differences

Language differences may sound like a major hurdle, but if you can overcome the initial difficulty, coming together linguistically can be life-changing, for you and your future.  Learning the language of your foreign girlfriend is self-improvement and skill-building, apart from the relationship benefits. Also, studies show that interracial children who speak multiple languages at home are actually smarter, taller, and better educated than their monolingual peers. You learning your foreign girlfriend’s/foreign brides language will, therefore, improve life for your future children as well as you.

Relationships with foreign women may be a bit overwhelming at times. However, few things in life come without risk, especially dating, domestically or overseas.  No one ever succeeded – in any aspect of life – just by staying in their comfort zones.

Nothing worth having comes easy”. This is also true when it comes to having love. So, take a risk, place your bet, and give yourself a chance at winning a lifetime of happiness; love beyond borders.

 

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Foreign Women: Pros and Cons of Dating Them

Pros and Cons of Dating Foreign Women

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Dating foreign women is a common occurrence among many men nowadays. Foreign dating and foreign brides (even mail order brides) have been around since colonial days.  Today’s technology has made it possible for anyone, anywhere, to meet, speak, and even marry. After just a few clicks, you could possibly find the woman of your dreams, half a world away.

Due to this, many prospective lovers have ventured out of their national borders and comfort zone to look for love. International marriage and interracial marriage, consequently, are now more routine than ever before.

Indeed, it’s quite the tale for the grandkids, how you and your wife found love despite the distance. Like in all good stories however, there will be trials along the way. To help you decide whether foreign love is for you or not, here are some of the pros and cons of dating foreign women:

Cons

  • Long-distance Relationship

The first thing that comes to mind when considering foreign women as partners is the physical distance. While it can certainly be overcome, this is one of the major challenges of international dating. Due to the distance, initial trust issues can be nearly inevitable. This may result in some initial hesitancy and lack of intimacy between couples.

While it can be overcome, the potential consequences can be deal-breakers. There are certainly many couples who have survived this stage of the relationship. This proves that such situations are most-definitely tenable in the long term. Having just a smidgen of creativity, tons of patience, and an unwavering resolve are the keys to surviving this initial hurdle.

  • Expensive Trips

    Due to the fact that you and your foreign girlfriend are from different sides of the globe, a simple visit could be quite expensive. While it’s certainly a grand romantic gesture, it could cost you a few grand as well. But it’s better to have loved and lost (replaceable) money than to keep the money and lost the woman of your dreams, right?

 

  • Cultural Differences

One of the biggest perceived limiting factors in dating foreign women are differences in culture. Foreign women (who could one day become foreign brides) may have different beliefs, practices, and traditions than what you’re used to. Norms in your culture may be non-starters in hers and vice versa.

There may also be handicaps to communication in the form of language barriers.  Just take some time for both of you to adjust and adapt. You might be pleasantly surprised at how much you enjoy each other’s culture.

Pros

 

  • Long-term Relationship

 

Long distance relationships can be a struggle. If you get through the rough patch, however, you could find yourself in a long-term relationship. Any woman who can make it through these initial relationship stresses is a keeper. Only a foreign girlfriend who is really willing to commit can invest herself in loving someone beyond her physical grasp. Fortunately for you, this is the case with many foreign women.

Amazingly they are often risk-takers when it comes to love. They do not easily give up and will strive to keep the relationship afloat. Foreign women, after all, have perspective regarding history and the hardships their ancestors endured. This makes them willing to gamble on lovers with distance and differences, having the larger goal of love in mind.

  • Adventures in a New Place

It’s understandable for men to hesitate dating foreign women due to the possible financial implications involved with a visit. But think of it this way, you can go to a place you’ve never been, with a tour guide who’s as fascinated with you as you are with the location.

You will also get to explore and discover new tastes, places, and adventures with someone you want to start a new life with. While the local knowledge will be great, the memories you make with your foreign girlfriend will be priceless.

 

  • Discover a New Culture

 

Your cultural differences can be more of a boon than bane depending on how open you are to trying new things. Conflicts and misunderstandings are inevitable in every relationship, but differences in culture and tradition can amplify your problems if you allow them to.

Taking steps to make your differences are what draws you closer rather than further apart, is a choice you make and one you have to be open to. If you are, you will learn many new things from your foreign girlfriend and broaden your perspective.

Simultaneously you can impart your own culture and traditions to her, bringing you closer on two fronts. Each day can be a day of discovery and learning if you want it to be. Can you imagine just how interesting every morning must be with her?
These are just a few of the advantages and disadvantages of dating foreign women. Whether you’re willing to take the plunge and get outside your comfort zone is ultimately up to you. True love — genuine and pure — cannot be hindered by distance and knows no adversity, just temporary inconvenience. You can be sure that when dating foreign women, you’ll find a love that transcends geographical and cultural barriers.

Marriage Life Vest: How to Save a Dying Marital Relationship

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When topics about marriage are on the line, idealistic and entirely positive comments begin to flood in. People have varied outlooks and views toward marriage. Some view it as a paradise-like avenue, while others look at it as a mere escape from solitude and poverty. However, marriage is not “all-heavens” and not all legally-united couples are happy. Undeniably and inevitably, problems of different sorts do happen in the course of marital life.

Of course, being married is such an excellently wonderful thing as you get to share your life with the person you treasure so much; however, there is no such thing as “perfect marriage”.

This is purposefully stated neither to scare you nor discourage you; this is said to allow the light of actuality shine in your mind. Let us just be real: fantasy is felt on the wedding day per se– the rest of your marriage life is a universe of reality in itself! This being said, couples must store up tons of marriage lifesavers in order to save their vows and promises until eternity even if their relationship boat is almost sinking. Without so much delay, here are the 7 marital lifesavers that would help up problematic couples in making their dying marriage alive and kicking.

 

  • Everything must be centered on faith and love.

 

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You might have heard of couples saying, “there’s nothing good left in our marriage”. This is actually false. Everything may seem so hopeless and tiring, but nothing beats the power of faith. Marital problems may send you at rock-bottom or may seem like a tough battlefield; however, if you prefer to bow down and humbly pray together, nothing seems too difficult to handle.

Whenever problems arise at the course of marriage, never trust your heart for it is deceitful and desperately sick. Rather, trust the wisdom of the Divine Providence and pray that He will align the desires of your heart according to His will. In this way, you and your partner will be able to address your tough marriage situations in faith and in love, not in anger and immaturity. Also, always remember that you ought to wholeheartedly love your partner wherever life would take you. Be still and trust the Author of love to be in the middle of your marriage life.

  1. Never fail to communicate.communicate

Tons of marital problems spring up from the communicative inadequacy and inefficiency among couples. Ideally, there must be a healthy communication within the family EVERYDAY. You might be having problems in terms of finances or other serious matters, but those should not give you reasons to stop communicating with your partner.

 

When you just open up and express your sentiments, both of you can arrive into powerful collaborative ideas that might eventually help you get out of the mess you’re experiencing. Note that communication is not only about speaking and expressing; it’s highly about listening and understanding. Never forget to ask for your partner’s side of the story or situation. In this way, fairness and open-mindedness are manifested within the relationship.

  1. Address the root cause of the problem.root cause

In medical science, you ought to treat the cause, not the symptoms. The same thing applies in the context of marriage; you have to deal and focus on eradicating the cause of your marital problem, not on the stemming scenarios that grew out of your unsolved fights.

For instance, when you are experiencing a hell week of fights and misunderstanding, consider asking yourself these questions: “when did this fight start?; what had caused this to continue until today?; are we not overreacting?”. After a thorough analysis of your current situation, approach your partner and initiate the emotional renovation process.

In this way, you would be able to address the root cause of the problem, and consequently, you might as well agree on neither fighting on the same thing again, nor digging senseless matters from the past.  

  1. Never prioritize your pride and anger.pride

There are uncountable marriages that have been broken by these two black wolves: pride and anger. It is normal to get angry, but to be destroyed by it is not. When your partner has sinned against you and you got too angry, do not directly give a counter-reaction for that might lead to a more negative consequence.

The words you’ve expressed could either make or break you, thus, hold your tongue. When caught in a situation where your temper is cloud-high, consider making yourself calm for a few hours, meditate, and start fixing your fight with your partner. Regardless of who had sinned between the two of you, again, initiate the so-called “emotional repair”. Do not allow pride to devour your marriage since you are standing in the name of love, not of pride.

  1. Don’t complicate the problem by adding more mistakes.

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If you are in a bad blood situation with your partner, that should not give you the confidence to hurt each other more and add more mistakes on top of the existing one. Infuriating your partner or getting even are signs of immaturity. For instance, you might be struggling with the mood swings of your partner; however, you should NOT make that as an excuse for cheating on your relationship.

Remember this: mistakes are normal and inevitable, but when repeated and enjoyed, consider those as nothing but foolishness. You are married to build each other up, and not to tear each other down. Thus, replace your anger with love and ditch your pride with humility.

  1. Agree on significant matters and build marital principles.

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After fixing your marital turmoils and troubles, it is just proper to agree on significant relationship matters and build family principles. Once solved, those problems you had in the past must never be tackled at present—otherwise, you will just create great flames out of a drenched fire. You may agree on forgetting the past and focusing instead on your present scenarios to build a brighter and smarter future.

Also, you ought to build strong marital principles such as: “we will no longer pick up immature fights within the relationship; we will be focusing on rearing our children to be godly and responsible; we shouldn’t give in to temptations as we are to love each other as husband and wife”. This way, you will be guided on the “to do’s” and “not to do’s” in the relationship, thus leading to a more organized and peaceful marriage life.  

  1. Live up to your promises and agreed principles.Family-Reuniting-553x358

Promises and principles are not just mere words—they are actions by themselves. Thus, those agreed principles must be realized through sincere manifestations. Even if your relationship has gone through serious and nerve-racking challenges, it is NEVER too late to start again and fuel back the love that you’ve kindled on the day you first met.

You may consider spending a family vacation on a serene and emotionally-soothing island, or you may surprise your partner with simple yet unique things. Marriage is not always about how you’ve started; it’s significantly about how you’ve managed to conquer your marital problems and make them as stepping stones toward a happier marriage life.

Those are the 7 marriage life savers that are specially written to aid problematic couples in dealing with their various marital circumstances. If you are one of them and you still feel uneasy, go back and carefully read tip #1. If you are still single, please DON’T be afraid of the revelations here. Though it comes with a price (not money but efforts and patience), being married to the one you love is one of the most gracious things that could ever transpire in your life. Hence, do not be anxious and keep the faith and love burning!

Top 5 Romantic Wedding Themes

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Wedding is a special day that must be cherished forever. With that, most people want to have an extravagant wedding celebration since being wedded with your most-loved person on earth will only happen once. Thus, most people spend a big amount of money just to have the best wedding ever. One of the most important things to be considered in that special day is the wedding theme. Sometimes, choosing the best one is the most complex part.

Are you having problems in choosing your very own wedding theme? Getting sick of the mainstream style and is uncertain as to what theme you guys should have? Worry no more for here, we are going to help you out with that! If you and your partner are the type of couple who want to have a romantic yet unique wedding theme, this article will give you some ideas to easily transform that desire into reality.

Here are some wedding themes that you and your mail-order bride may choose from:

 

  • Classic or Traditional Wedding

 

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A classic or traditional wedding is often a formal occasion. More often than not, this includes: the couple marrying inside the church; the bride wearing a white classic wedding dress which is usually in a ballgown-style; the bridesmaids putting on elegant gowns; the groom dressing himself up in a classic black tuxedo; the groomsmen wearing a formal suit also; then formal celebrations are to be followed after the ceremony. This wedding ceremony includes flower girls, ushers, and a ring bearer.

The celebration also involves wedding pictorials, slicing of cake, speeches for the newly-wedded couple, first dance of the couple, father-daughter and mother-son dances, and lastly, the garter and the bouquet toss. Also, the guests can come past one by one to congratulate the couple.

 

  • Vintage Style Wedding

 

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Vintage-themed wedding means that the style of the entire wedding will be similar to that of the ancient times. This theme can be expressed through the garments used, hair and makeup worn, as well as the aura of the venue, decoration and flower choice. This wedding theme also includes: jazz music, vintage photoshoot and vintage wedding cars will be used to emphasize the theme itself. Vintage style wedding can be a formal occasion too like the classic one, however, this may not include all the traditional formalities, such as a bridal party.

 

  • Garden or Outdoors Wedding

 

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Generally, a wedding that takes place in a garden or outdoors is a relaxed ceremony. Its dress code can be casual or formal, depending on what has been agreed. After the wedding ceremony, most couples choose to continue the celebration outdoors and make a festival-inspired setting, with the inclusion of food and outdoor games. Some couples on the other hand, would choose to move the wedding celebration into an indoor reception for a more formal dinner and other evening formalities. Newly-wedded couples who agreed to have the celebration outdoors usually have their first dance under the moonlit night while they are surrounded by the guests with sparklers in hand. That’s a more romantic scene!

 

  • Beach Wedding

 

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In a beach wedding, guests are not required to wear formal vests since this wedding theme is typically a relaxed ceremony. Other couples opt to have a casual approach with regards to their wedding attire. Some brides even choose to wear sandals or no footwear at all to enhance the theme itself. Mostly, a beach wedding is very intimate, and it only includes a handful of close friends and family to celebrate with. However, it still depends on you. Most of the on-the-beach wedding will include a ceremony that is done on the beach itself, followed by a reception which is close at hand.

 

  • Farm Wedding

 

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A country or farm wedding is a wedding which is literally held at a farm. To give emphasis on the theme, the couples may wear boots and use trucks as a wedding transport. These types of wedding are usually sit-down occasions which also don’t require the guests to abide on the so-called formal dress code. Moreover, the reception can be held as well at a nearby barnhouse. With regards to the traditional formalities and the members, the couples may agree to have many members or few. It also depends on you and your partner.

If you have already found the genuine love you have been looking for among these foreign women in our site, take these themes into consideration. One of the aforementioned themes is perfect for your desired romantic wedding, thus make it a reality by choosing one from these!

 

Top Wedding Venues in the Philippines

 

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Every girl dreams of a perfect wedding which will narrate her love story or will even fit her own personality. Thus, do not be surprised by how creative and imaginative your mail-order bride can be when it comes to your wedding preparations. It is normal for women to care too much about the wedding. Why? It’s because it will only happen once and therefore, everything must be perfect.

However, here’s the bigger question. Have you decided about the wedding venue yet? What kind of wedding are you planning to have? Do you want to try a relaxing beach wedding, or maybe a vintage-inspired one? You can also have a sunset wedding venue for a romantic sight. But if confusions hit you hard, take time to read this article.

In choosing a wedding venue and theme, you must be wise enough. Bear in mind that your theme must correspond to your venue and vice versa. To help you with finding a perfect wedding venue that will surely complement your wedding theme, set your eyes here.

If you are marrying foreign women and looking for a classy yet luxurious wedding venue, undeniably, the Philippines is the way to go. Here are few of the wedding venues that you might choose from:

BEACH WEDDING VENUES

  • El Nido Resorts (Apulit Island, Miniloc Island, Lagen Island and Pangulasian Island)

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Travel to El Nido and celebrate the beginning of your ‘forever’ with a scenic and laid-back setting. El Nido Resorts in Palawan offer nothing but the best when it comes to weddings. To have a picture-perfect kind of wedding, the resort, is composed of four different islands, offers various settings that can perfectly handle that most awaited day of yours. You can opt to get married on a cove near a lagoon. This venue is picturesque for those people who are looking for a tranquil and tropical paradise.

  • Movenpick Hotel Mactan Island Cebu

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If you are planning to take into consideration a beach wedding, Movenpick Hotel and Resort in Mactan, Cebu is a great choice indeed. This resort is Mediterranean-inspired and is ideally just a few kilometers from the MCIA (Mactan Cebu International Airport). It technically has a trendy vibe which is suitable for couples and offers several locations for weddings. One of its best beach destinations is Ibiza Beach Club which is a premier venue for most sought-after events.

SUNSET WEDDING VENUES

  • Diamond Hotel

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If you want to have a sunset wedding, Diamond Hotel is highly recommended. It is located in the heart of Manila, Philippines’ business and leisure centers. This luxury hotel offers a glorious view of the magnificent Manila Bay sunset. Moreover, it has plenty of deluxe and cozy areas for your reception; that includes the Grand Ballroom and Constellation Events’ Place which is both located on its 27th floor.

  • Nami Resort

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A place that offers a spectacular view of Boracay, Nami Resort promises you a scenic wedding ceremony. This resort rests on top of a cliff in Diniwid Beach. Given that, it serves as a tropical paradise that is located between the sky and the sea. The resort’s more secluded location provides an ultimate and intimate setting for your special day. You can even choose to tie the knot outdoors under the clear blue sky and having the sound of the sea and the beautiful sunset as your background.

GARDEN WEDDING VENUES

  • Hill Creek Gardens

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Among all the wedding spots in Tagaytay, Hill Creek Gardens stands out because it is convenient and comfortable. Due to this wedding garden, Tagaytay is now a home to lots of wedding venues. Its gardens look splendid. Its chapel looks stunning with the abundance of green surroundings. Also, it has a natural rustic ambiance on it. This resort serves as a famous destination for those couples who wish to have an intimate garden wedding.

  • Tagaytay Highlands

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If you wish to get away from the bustling life of the city during your wedding day, Tagaytay Highlands is a great place to visit. What can be found in the scenic Tagaytay Highlands are the overlooking Taal Lake and Taal Volcano. There is a beautiful chapel inside its area, “Madre De Dios”. It is attractively old-fashioned and air-conditioned chapel on a hilltop. Its adorable sight will surely capture your heart.

VINTAGE WEDDING VENUES

  • Hacienda Isabella

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Hacienda Isabella, with an airy yet elegant white house, is home to many celebrity weddings. It is located in Indang, Cavite. An old-fashioned yet capturing farmhouse is surrounded by fruit-bearing trees. The four-hectare place is also filled with reproductions of antique furniture. One of the great things about this venue is that it is budget-friendly. Thus, if you want to have a vintage wedding theme, do consider Hacienda Isabella.

  • Balay Indang

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Balay Indang boasts of its expensive garden that is filled with various cacti of flowers and trees. One of the most chosen places in Cavite for a wedding venue is the Red Ginger Farm and Garden, popularly known as Balay Indang. This place would actually make a charming location for your very special day. It has a serene atmosphere that you and your guests will surely appreciate. Balay Indang is budget-friendly too. Celebrate your wedding day here!

Those are the top weddings venues in the Philippines. In choosing a perfect venue, the aforementioned ones can be of great help. Let your dream wedding happen in an enchanting and picturesque place!